REFLECTIONS FROM LAUREN HOWE

The Soft Ground

A place for tending to your unfolding

Sometimes we realise that the ways we have learnt to move through the world no longer quite fit. We might find ourselves tired of pushing through, disconnected from our bodies, caught in familiar patterns, or sensing that something within us is asking for a different way.

The Soft Ground is a meeting place for those moments. To land within them and meet them with a curious heart rather than another thing to fix or overcome.

Here I write about somatic therapy, body-led meditation, nervous system awareness, life transitions and our relationship with the natural world, exploring what can become possible when we begin listening to the body rather than always trying to think our way forward.

You are invited to come as you are. Stay with what is here.
See what begins to emerge.

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How to Meditate When You Have Anxiety

Meditation can feel hard when you have anxiety, especially if sitting still, closing your eyes or focusing on the breath makes your body feel more activated. This blog explores how to meditate with anxiety through a body-led approach using grounding, movement, sound, open-eye meditation and nervous system support.

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Why Meditation Feels Harder Before Your Period - A body-led guide to meditation, hormones and your cycle

Meditation can feel different across your menstrual cycle. This blog explores why meditation may feel harder before your period, how hormones and the luteal phase can affect your nervous system, and how to adapt meditation for menstruation, the follicular phase, ovulation and the luteal phase.

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Meditation Wasn't Designed for Women's Bodies (And What to Do Instead)

A softer reflection on why meditation can feel hard for women, especially when traditional practices do not make room for the body, nervous system, hormonal rhythms, burnout, motherhood or the real-life load many women carry. This piece explores how body-led meditation offers another way into practice, one that begins with the body as it is and supports women to listen, soften and come home to themselves.

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Why Meditation Apps Aren’t Enough: The Nervous System Needs More Than a Recording

Meditation apps can be helpful, but they cannot truly attune to your body, nervous system or emotional needs. This blog explores why nervous system-informed meditation, somatic support and relational guidance matter, especially for women navigating anxiety, burnout, trauma, motherhood or emotional overwhelm.

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What Is Somatic Meditation? A Body-Led Approach to Coming Home to Yourself

In this blog, I explore what somatic meditation is, how it differs from traditional meditation, why trauma-sensitive and properly trained guidance matters, and how body-led meditation can support women through stress, anxiety, burnout, motherhood and life transitions.

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Somatic Meditation: What Over 10 Years of Meditation Has Taught Me About My Body

After more than ten years of meditation practice, teaching and training meditation teachers, I have learned that meditation is not only about stillness or quieting the mind. This personal reflection explores somatic meditation, body-led meditation, trauma-informed practice, movement, spiritual bypassing, nervous system safety and why the body needs to be included in meditation, especially for women navigating anxiety, overwhelm, motherhood, burnout and life transitions.

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What Happens in an Online Somatic Therapy Session?

Curious about online somatic therapy but unsure what actually happens in a session? This gentle guide explains how SomaSoul-informed somatic therapy works through body awareness, reflective inquiry, drawing, movement and nervous system support, especially for women navigating anxiety, overwhelm, motherhood, burnout and life transitions.

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Why Can’t I Meditate Anymore? A Nervous System Perspective for Women

Meditation can feel very different across a woman’s life. What once felt grounding or spacious may begin to feel flat, agitating or out of reach as stress, hormones, grief, caregiving, trauma or major life transitions shape the body and nervous system. This piece explores why that happens and how practice may need to change with more gentleness, safety and respect for the body.

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Mothering as a devotional practice

A personal reflection on mothering as a devotional practice, the invisible labour of raising children, and why mothers need less fixing and more space to tell the truth about exhaustion, care, and the hard seasons of family life.

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The evolution of this space: why I am now offering body-led sessions for all women

I’m expanding my work to support all women, not only mothers. While I still offer my 4-session nervous system program for mothers, I’m now also offering private body-led sessions for women in all seasons of life who are navigating anxiety, overwhelm, life transitions, or a longing to feel more connected to themselves.

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IVF can be an unspoken trauma, even when it brings a baby

IVF can leave a nervous system imprint that doesn’t disappear once you become a mum. This personal reflection explores powerlessness, grief, medical mistreatment, and the pressure to be “only grateful”, and why so many mothers carry IVF into postpartum in ways that are rarely spoken about.

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